A delicate question: how to quietly and silently go to the toilet

There is nothing more natural than the need to go to the toilet, but for many people the need to do this outside the home becomes a real stress. Psychologically, it is very difficult to meet the need for guests or in a public place, and so that this is not such a problem, it is important to simply know how to quietly and silently go to the toilet.

A delicate issue that concerns everyone

A person has not yet learned how to control all the processes in the body, so he can “lock in” to the toilet at the most inopportune moment — for example, at a party, at work, or in a public place.

For many, this becomes a big problem. Firstly, because going to the toilet outside the house is uncomfortable, both psychologically and physiologically. A person cannot completely relax, concentrate, feels uncomfortable, in a hurry.

Secondly, the awkwardness in front of others - colleagues, friends or landlords prevents. I don’t want other people to guess what exactly you were doing there. It seems that this will certainly spoil your impression and seem to the rest uncivilized.

Tips for silently going to the toilet

It is better not to ignore the body's urge - it negatively affects health. Wherever you are, it is better to go to the toilet and relieve yourself.

Few people are embarrassed to go to the toilet “in a little way”, but “in a big way” to many it seems inappropriate and shameful. In order not to feel embarrassed, use a few tips that will help you do everything silently and not spoil your impression of yourself.

Assessment of the situation and the choice of the moment

The first step is to assess the situation. It’s better to try to guess such a moment when everyone is busy and distracted with something, then it will be easier to go out and retire to the toilet without attracting attention. If others do not notice your disappearance, they will not understand how long you have been absent.

Correct preposition

If the circle of friends or colleagues is small and it’s impossible to go quietly, it’s better to come up with a good excuse. It is not necessary to focus on what you are going to the toilet. Try to think of something, for example:

• You need to answer an important call;
• need to refresh or correct makeup / hairstyle / clothes;
• something has gotten into your eye and you need to rinse it immediately.

Such pretexts will not cause unnecessary questions and suspicions, even if your absence will be long.

Correct location

If you are at work or in a public place, try to choose the closest toilet and the farthest booth from your location. This will help you to retire and feel more comfortable, as well as minimize the risk that you will be heard.

Remember to lock the door to avoid unpleasant embarrassment.

No time to relax

You can relax in the toilet with a newspaper only at home, in any other place it is better to do everything as quickly as possible. Do not sit back, but focus and do everything clearly and quickly. But do not rush and control yourself so that you do not accidentally make an unnecessary sound.

No noise

Make extra noise to drown out unpleasant sounds. There are several effective ways:

• turn on the water and, if the sink is nearby, you can put your hand under the stream to make it seem that you are washing;
• pretend that you are talking on the phone - your voice will drown out the rest of the sounds and give the impression that you really are alone in the toilet to talk;
• to avoid a gurgling sound, put some toilet paper in the toilet bowl - it will soften the characteristic splash of water;
• at the most crucial moment, turn on the flush - the noise from the flushed water will drown out the other sounds you make;
• when defecating, both in a small and a big way, try to direct everything to the wall of the toilet bowl - this way it will turn out to be really silent.

Thanks to these methods, no one around will suspect what is happening in the toilet.

Do not leave marks

It is very important not to leave behind any traces. To do this, do not forget:

• flush and make sure that the toilet is clean, use a brush if necessary;
• prevent odor - for this, immediately after something comes out of you, flush the toilet;
• use an air freshener, but do not spray too much, just one "zilch" is enough;
• if there is no freshener, use improvised means: perfume or a drop of liquid soap in the toilet before rinsing.

All this will help to make your toilet trip inconspicuous and help to avoid embarrassment.

However, remember that there is nothing indecent in your natural needs, even if they find you in the wrong place. Intelligent and adequate people will never focus on this and consider it something shameful.